Make decisions you actually feel good about.
Download this 10-minute check-in to reduce second-guessing, interrupt self-override and choose from your body, not pressure.
Learn to recognize your body’s yes, no and not-yet, interrupt habitual yeses and pause long enough to make choices that actually feel right.
When understanding your patterns doesn’t stop you from overriding yourself, the answer isn’t more analysis, it’s learning to listen differently.
This work doesn’t go deeper into the story. It goes into the body, where hesitation, bracing and habitual yeses actually show up. It’s for women who are done trying to think their way into change and are ready to make choices that don’t require leaving themselves behind.
When insight isn’t enough, the body is the missing piece.
Hi, I’m Amanda. I help women who already understand their patterns but are still living them, still contorting for connection, still overriding themselves, still stuck in the same relational loops.
Most of the women I work with have done the mindset work. They’ve read the books. They’ve been in talk therapy. They can name their attachment style and trauma history, yet they may lash out, point fingers and/or stonewall the ones around them, when it matters most.
That was my experience too.
For years, I believed insight would change everything. It didn’t. What finally did was learning to work with the body because survival identities and patterns aren’t formed in the mind and self-abandonment doesn’t live there either.
As I began listening to my body instead of overriding it, things shifted. The chronic tension, the urge to stay agreeable or small stopped being problems to fix and became information to trust. Over time, this work dismantled the identity I had built around keeping the peace and rebuild a sense of Self that felt grounded, clear and my own.
I became a coach because I saw how many women were living the same way, shaping themselves around approval, disconnection or fear, while slowly losing contact with their own truth. I wanted to create a space where women could reconnect in the way most of us were never taught: through the body, through lived truth and through self-belonging.
Today, I support women through trauma-informed, body-based identity work that meets them exactly where they are. No two bodies are the same, so no two sessions are either. This isn’t another self-improvement modality, this is learning how to live without leaving yourself behind.
When it comes to building self-trust,
you have two paths.
Let’s find the one that fits where you are
Are you ready to stop making choices from survival and start
living from self-trust?
If you’re a woman who’s built a life while overriding herself and you’re ready for clearer boundaries, steadier decisions, and relationships that don’t require self-abandonment, this work offers a direct, body-based path forward.
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Through these sessions, you may experience:
Clearer decision-making and communication
Stronger, more consistent boundaries without self-betrayal
Healthier, more aligned relationships and dating choices
Fewer repeating relational patterns rooted in people-pleasing
Greater agency over your choices, pace, and how you show up
Increased emotional capacity, stability, and self-trust
More available time, energy, and mental bandwidth in daily life
Greater trust in your nervous system and internal signals
Embodied boundaries you can feel and rely on
Access to emotions previously held beneath numbness or armor
Release of tension and survival-based patterns held in the body
Restored breath, presence, and vitality
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This work is for women who have spent much of their lives prioritizing connection, approval, and safety, often at the expense of themselves.
You may recognize yourself if:
You’ve lived from people-pleasing or relational survival
You often abandon your needs to maintain connection
You feel disconnected from your identity, desires, or sense of self-worth
You struggle to know what you want or to trust your own choices
Boundaries feel confusing, unsafe, or hard to express
You repeat relationship patterns rooted in self-abandonment
You make decisions from fear or habit rather than from truth
You feel empty, fragmented, or unrooted beneath the roles you play
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Each 1:1 session is intuitive, collaborative, and tailored to your needs. We may explore:
We begin with conversation, naming what you’d like support with.
Instead of only talking about patterns, we notice how they live in the body.
Together, we track sensations—tightness, bracing, numbness, trembling—where the root of old patterns reside.
Through gentle practices (breath, movement, awareness), you learn to feel these patterns in real time.
As your body becomes familiar with these signals, you begin to recognize them in daily life.
This opens space for new choices—where once there was only repetition or shame.
Sessions are collaborative, consent-led, and paced to your body’s readiness.
Space to process emotions in a supportive, non-judgmental container
You’re always in charge of the pace. Consent, co-regulation, and emotional safety are central to everything I do.
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Sessions can be held in person in Lisbon or online via Zoom.
6 month package:
(2) 1-1 calls per month
Unlimited Voxer M-F and community access
Access to 12 week course
Somatic Sexology
Eros is not just sex. Eros is the pulse of life itself— the raw current that wants to move through you, to create, to connect, to expand. When we listen to the erotic body, we reclaim what was buried under shame, numbness, or fear.
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Themes we could explore:
Reconnect with pleasure, desire, and erotic vitality
Release shame, numbness, or disconnection from your body
Explore intimacy, kinks, or new dynamics with safety and curiosity
Restore confidence, embodiment, and self-compassion in your sexuality
Deepen relationship with your body, partners, and erotic truth
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These sessions may be for you if you:
Feel a longing to reclaim your sensual aliveness
Are healing from sexual trauma or shameExperience loss of libido, numbness, or hypersensitivity
Desire support around intimacy, communication, or boundaries
Want a safe, playful, judgment-free space to explore your erotic self
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Each session is a co-creation—sometimes gentle, sometimes playful, always guided by your body’s wisdom.
We may weave:Somatic bodywork & trauma-informed touch
Erotic education & intimacy coaching
Practices for boundaries, communication, and pleasure
Space to explore desire, fantasy, and self-expression
No two sessions are alike; your body sets the pace.
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Sessions are 90 minutes and can be held in person in Lisbon or online via Zoom.
Investment: 111€ / 90minI am proudly Board Certified & REEF™ Certified
I hold this work with integrity, safety, and deep reverence for your erotic healing.
We May Explore:
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Enter the body where silence once lived. Here, safety is rebuilt not as theory but as sensation—cell by trembling cell.
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Meeting the places that shut down desire, sensation, or voice. Not to force them open—but to listen until they soften on their own.
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Guiding the flood of overwhelm back into flow, where your breath can move like water again.
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Gathering the lost fragments of self, calling your spirit back into your bones after seasons of exile.
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Holding the grief, the unspoken truths, the places love never landed—and letting them ripen into deeper presence.
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Coaxing aliveness through the senses, letting the body remember her own language of delight and devotion.
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Meeting eros not as danger, not as taboo, but as the holy current that longs to create, connect, and expand.
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Growing confidence, compassion, and clarity in the body—so your yes and your no come from marrow-deep truth.