YOU LEARNED TO BE NEEDED BECAUSE IT FELT
SAFER THAN BEING KNOWN
Somatic intimacy coaching, bodywork, and pelvic care for people who can carry almost anything except their own needs.
LISBON · ONLINE
who i work with
I work with people who are very good at carrying the world on their shoulders. From the outside, life looks successful. The career. The relationship. The responsibilities. You know how to orchestrate confidence and competence.
Underneath, something isn't working the way it used to. Sex feels disconnected. Rest doesn't help. The same conflicts keep returning. Pain, tension, numbness, or fatigue get harder to ignore.
Most people arrive convinced those are the problem. They usually aren't. More often, they're the cost of years spent meeting expectations and overriding the signals that something needed attention.
My work sits where somatics, intimacy, bodywork, and pelvic care meet. I work with the body, not separately from it, because what you bring rarely lives only in your relationships, only in your sexuality, or only in your symptoms. It shows up across all three.
6+ years coaching • 50k+ readers & followers
Board Certified SEXOLOGIST • BOARD CERTIFIED Sexological Bodyworker • Scar Tissue Remediation Practitioner •
Wheel of Consent INFORMED
where to start
Where we begin depends on what is most ready to move, whether that is pain you want gone or pleasure you want back.-
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Somatic Intimacy coaching
Learn to trust yourself: your yes, your no, what's yours to feel. The foundation everything else builds on. Online or in person.
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Somatic bodywork
Once the foundation is there, expand your capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and erotic expression. In person.
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Pelvic Care & Scar tissue remediation
Restore sensation, comfort, and trust after pain, birth, surgery, or scarring. In person.
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THE IMPECCABLE MAN
The men's program. Become as present in intimacy as you are everywhere else in your life.
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IMMERSIONS
Any of this work, given days instead of an hour. Portugal and worldwide.
WHAT STARTS TO SHIFTTHE WORK IS NOT THE SESSION. IT'S WHO YOU GET TO BE AFTER.
You stop bringing the strategies that built your success into the parts of life that can't be mastered. You spend less time thinking about desire and more time experiencing it. You stop feeling solely responsible for holding everything together.
Someone gets close and you stay present, instead of disappearing into performance or productivity. You learn that being highly capable and being deeply connected are not the same thing.
The goal is a richer experience of intimacy, pleasure, and connection, without having to earn it first.
RULES OF THE ROOM
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Nothing happens to you. Everything happens with you.
Consent is an ongoing conversation, not a checkbox at the beginning of a session. You can change your mind, slow down, stop, or choose something different at any point.
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You are never handed a process and told to follow it.
Your body, your experience, and your choices matter more than any technique, framework, or modality I could bring into the room.
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The wounds that happened around people, also heal around people.
We pay attention to what is happening in real time: what feels easy, what feels uncomfortable, what gets avoided, what gets defended, and what becomes possible when it no longer held alone.
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This is where the most important shifts happen. Insight means very little if your life stays the same.
The work is not measured by what happens in session. It is measured by what changes in your relationships, your body, your decision-making, your sexuality, and your daily life afterward.
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COACHING PROGRAMthe impeccable man
one-on-oneFor the man who has built a life he can no longer feel
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