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Amanda James Amanda James

Are Your Boundaries Actually Walls?

I’ve come to see boundaries as an invitation to create a safe, nurturing container for connection both with myself and others. Walls, on the other hand, often emerge when my nervous system is in a state of protection, guarding me from perceived threats.

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Amanda James Amanda James

Tending the Wounds of Sexual Trauma

Sexual trauma is not merely a wound of the past, it is a rupture in a person’s relationship to self, body, and other. These wounds often linger in the silent terrain of the soma, carried not just in memory but in gesture, breath, and touch.

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Amanda James Amanda James

What is Embodied Intimacy?

Embodied intimacy is a profound, heart-centered way of connecting—with yourself, others, and life itself. It invites a deeper awareness of your body’s sensations, emotions, and boundaries, allowing for more authentic and present relationships.

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