There’s a reason you say yes while
your body is saying no.

(and it’s not because you’re indecisive)

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In this practice, you’ll:

  • Learn why confusion, hesitation, or regret around decisions isn’t a mindset problem

  • Discover how your body signals Yes, No, and Not-Yet often before your mind catches up

  • Interrupt the habit of saying yes out of obligation, fear, or expectation

  • Feel the difference between a choice that’s aligned and one that requires contorting

  • Begin rebuilding self-trust through the body, not willpower

  • Walk away with a simple pause you can use before your next text, invitation, or decision

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Meet Amanda

SOMATIC THERAPIST

I went from living disconnected from myself to supporting women in rebuilding embodied self-trust through the same work I had to do myself.

Back then, I was:

  • disconnected from my body and unsure of what I actually wanted

  • making decisions based on what I thought was expected of me

  • being the good girl- agreeable, capable, accommodating

  • saying yes when something inside me felt off

  • living without a clear internal compass

  • in talk therapy 3x a week

On the outside, things looked fine.
On the inside, I was disconnected from my own truth.

What finally changed everything?

I stopped trying to make “better decisions” and started listening to my body.

I realized I wasn’t confused or indecisive.
I had learned to override myself in order to belong, be chosen and keep the peace.

And no amount of insight, self-reflection or talking it through could change that.

I couldn’t intellectualize my way out of this, trust me I tried. It had to be felt, through the body. So I began the slow work of unlearning, returning to my body, learning how my Yes and No actually feel and rebuilding self-trust from the inside out.

Over the years…

  • I’ve spent thousands of hours working with women navigating people-pleasing and relational self-abandonment

  • I’ve watched women move from chronic confusion to clarity rooted in their own bodies

  • I’ve seen how relationships, boundaries and lives reorganize when self-trust is restored

  • And I now teach the same practices that helped me come back into contact with myself

The practice you’re about to download is a doorway into that work.

You don’t have to do this alone, we can do this together.

Show me how to make clear decisions